Secrets of seduction part 8: fake it ’til you make it

Secrets of seduction part 8: fake it ’til you make it. I’m sure a lot of us have heard of the saying before – “fake it ’til you make it”. But what does it have to do with seduction? A lot, actually. See, the whole idea behind the idiom “fake it ’til you make it” is that even if you’re not very good at something, or you aren’t successful at a particular endeavour, if you keep on trying and hoping for the best, and even sometimes pretending to know what you’re doing (even if you don’t), eventually you will start succeeding for real. Because the best people in their respective fields all started out as rookies too.

So if you want to become a master of seduction, one of the biggest secrets you can learn is “fake it ’til you make it”. By this I mean, when you go out on a date, or are even just casually talking to the woman of man of your desire in the street or supermarket, if you act cool and confident (even if you aren’t on the inside) and pretend like you are a master seducer, then you will, over time, become naturally good at seducing someone. The logic is pretty simple. If you pretend for long enough, eventually you become the real deal.

So if you want to become a master of seduction, just keep on living by that saying “Fake it ’til you make it”. And then one day, people will probably be coming to you for advice about seduction, and you’ll know exactly what to tell them. (If you indeed want to share this advice!)

Cheers,

Jed Kemsley