Secrets of seduction part 7: sophistication

Secrets of seduction part 7: sophistication. Ah, that word… sophistication. Upon hearing it, I always think of tuxedos, candle-lit dinners at 5-star restaurants, waltzing on a marble ballroom floor, and sipping cocktails on a balcony looking over a moonlit lake.

Yes, sophistication. It’s something that many people want to learn more about. After all, we’re taught from an early age that it’s important to grow, develop, and mature as a person. And sophistication is, in most regards, the result of us all growing, developing, and maturing as we journey through life.

But how do we become more sophisticated? And what does sophistication have to do with seduction? Well, I can tell you that from my experience of reading about seduction masters and their advice and secrets, that the more sophisticated you are, the better seducer you can be. How does this work? Let me explain.

If you’re a smooth, cool, sophisticated man or woman, you’ve instantly got the advantage when it comes to seducing someone. Everyone wants to be taken in by someone else. Women love being swept off their feet by the tall, dark, handsome stranger… the sophisticated stranger. Men love sophisticated, beautiful, enchanting women. And so it’s obvious that if you’re sophisticated, you’re well on the way to seducing the man or woman of your dreams.

So how does one become more sophisticated? Well, it doesn’t mean wearing a ballroom dress or tuxedo every day of the week. (But there’s nothing wrong with dressing up!) But it does mean little things like manners, looking after your appearance, keeping your shoes in good condition, learning proper restaurant/cafe/dining place etiquette, and generally being a smart, modern, switched-on person. All of these things will add to your sophistication, and make you a master of seduction. (And someone that other people want to seduce, I might add.)

Cheers,

Jed Kemsley