FOR MEN: How to out-play a “player”. For us men, it’s safe to say we’ve all been there. You’ve been talking to a cute girl at the bar for a good hour, bought her a couple of drinks, and have a really good rhythm going, when a “player” comes along and takes her attention and ultimately lands her. It’s not a good feeling. In fact, it’s one of the worst feelings out there. Because when it comes to the dating game, the old saying is true: “all’s fair in love and war”. So how do you out-play a “player”, and land the woman of your dreams? Read on.
When it comes to “players”, I’ve found that a lot of them have read up big on how to “play the game”. They’ve studied things like “the art of picking up”, “how to smooth talk women”, and so on. They’ve worked hard on their “game” so they can be the guy who walks into the bar and is immediately identified as the “player”. They can be tough to out-play, for sure. In fact, some “players” are so good at what they do that it can be nigh on impossible to attract female attention on a night out if there’s a good “player” in the room. But there is a way to out-play them. It comes down to, yes, that magic word… being cool.
Yes, dear readers, being cool is the single biggest weapon you have in your personality arsenal when it comes to defeating the “player” and regaining the attention of the lovely female that you so richly deserve to be talking to and getting to know. (And who knows, perhaps even dating one day.)
By being cool, you will outlast the “player”, who, despite their talent, only has a limited knowledge of what it truly takes to be cool. And when it comes down to it, being cool beats being a “player” every day of the week. Trust me on this one. So when you’re playing a game of pool against a “player”, and he’s chatting up the woman in between shots, just be cool. Focus on the game of pool and nothing else until the game is over. That’s what being cool is all about.
And how else does one be cool? Well to answer that, dear readers, I will link you to two previous blog posts I wrote about being cool: How to be cool and How to be cool: Part 2.
Cheers,
Jed Kemsley