Secrets of seduction part 3

Secrets of seduction part 3. Welcome to the third in my series of blog posts about seduction. In this post, I’m going to give some specific advice about how to talk, act, and, most importantly, think to ensure you have the best possible chance of seducing your dream partner. Ready? Okay, here we go!

1. Dinner date “dos” and “don’ts”. This information may be second nature to most of you, but I will cover it just in case. When you’re on a dinner date, the little things matter. A lot. For instance, “dos” include pulling out the chair at a dinner table for your date when you arrive, tipping the waiter, and complimenting the chef if they ask you how the food was. These things show courtesy, manners, and go a long way to seducing your partner. (Everyone loves someone who knows how to act in a restaurant.)

Now, obviously dinner date “don’ts” include things like complaining about the food, being late for the date, and burping or talking with your mouth full of food. (These things are big turn-offs.) So, basically, just use common sense when on a dinner date, and you’ll go a long way to seducing your partner.

(Oh, and candlelit dinners are always a winner. Just another tip.)

2. It’s all in the words, baby. People love people who say the right things. This much is obvious. It’s why everyone loves hearing athletes give post-match interviews about how great the game was, why people loved hearing Steve Jobs announce Apple’s latest products up on stage year after year, and why people like listening to love songs and music that makes them happy. After all, words are powerful. If you say the right thing at the right time, it can go a long way to furthering you in your career, help you meet the right people, and, in this context, seduce someone.

Now, I know that not everyone has the “gift of the gab”. Indeed, it’s a rare thing that only some people truly have. But I believe everyone can learn how to use words to help them seduce their dream partner and live happily ever after. Which is what we all deserve! So, my advice would be to read some inspirational speeches, try reading a few novels to improve your vocabulary, and simply have conversations with everyone you get the chance to meet. This way you will become a master of words, and then when the time is right and you’re on a date with your dream parter, you will know just the words to say to seduce them!

Cheers,

Jed Kemsley